This is a great day!

I'm not perfect I have had my moments where i feel frustrated, hopeless, annoyed
however i stop and breathe. And remember that I'm being extremely hard on myself
I do the best that i can being a one person show and raising 4 kids. Last year was
a hard to swallow year reading a text that stated" I'm over it, you want the kids you can
have them. As if material possesions were being discussed.
I don't get child support yet alone me time. I do have the best of my children
well behaved, full of life, funny, smart, brilliant.
That's the thing with Life, we have choices!
We can live in the moment,enjoy it more,and laugh plenty or dwell

How do I do it?

1. Look on the bright side"
I think of all the great things in my life, specially the beautiful moments, good people that are around,
I post my kids awards, report cards on the fridge to keep my focus on the rewards of having faith and doing
my part as a strong role model.



2.Music to your ears"


I get motivated by listening to inspiring,uplifting, positive tunes. It lifts my mood 100%
Also intaking positive feedback from my family and friends. Anything less doesn't
deserve you time! Remember that when someone has negative things to say
they're dealing with personal issues in their life and you shouldn't pay attention to
that non sense.

3. Speak about Love"

Talk about goals,dreams,hobbies,future destinations to visit. Focus on where you want to
be. Because your much closer than you realize. The more you talk about what you want
and less of what you don't have make a difference it's unseen motivation.
Stop talking about things,people, that don't matter. And start visualizing about the places,
things, people that you want to see, visit, have. You can do anything you set your mind to!
that goes for positive and negative think about it!


4. Pay it Forward"

Do things that make you smile, and that also means make others smile
with small acts of kindness. I get Joy from making others smile, laugh, cheer up.
Even if you think it's a small gesture. Do it! give a compliment!


5.Everyday is a special occasion"

It doesn't have to be Thanksgiving to say Thank you, who cares if it's not Valentine's day to say
"I Love You!", everyday is a special day because guess what? you're alive!
your healthy, your blessed with being loved by many, even if you feel alone you are not!
chances are someone somewhere is actually looking up to you! So make someones day by
letting them know that they are also loved... hey dress up just because
go for a walk and look around their is so much beauty! listen to nature




Last but not least: It's not late to change your Life! as long as you have the WILL,DETERMINATION
STRIVE, doors will open, great things will appear, and you will feel that much
Loved because not only will you have bettered your Life, you will have also made a change
in other's lives!